Friday, June 22, 2012
Up coming blog Prostitute vs. Girlfriend
This will be a blog weighing in on the pros and cons of having a girlfriend vs. getting with a prostitute. Is one better than the other? Be ready to give your opinion.
Sunday, May 6, 2012
You can't end the demand for creation.
This blog is for those who favor the Swedish approach to prostitution that focuses on targeting the Johns, also know as the end demand. This law that targets men but allows a woman to sell sexual services, was first enacted by the government of Sweden. Later on Norway adopted the same law and a few other governments have been contemplating it. What they fail to realize is the same demand for prostitution, is the same demand that creates us. We are born because of the demand for sexual gratification. If we were born out of a demand for war, or to be at each others throats all the time, we could not be born from the gathering of two people. Instead, we would be reproduced as robots with no ability to act on freewill.
On top of the law unfairly targeting men, just like all those other laws in place prohibiting prostitution, it doesnot stop it. Anytime something that is of harm to no one becomes prohibited, criminal activity is encouraged to surround it. In a world where most people want to move towards equality, it is double standard and a step backwards to allow for the sell of something, but criminalize the buyer.
I wounder what law makers were thinking when they were putting together the end demand law. Surely they didn't think they were making strides in woman's rights. I thought women fought for the right to their bodies. But if they are doing something with their bodies that some people don't like, something about it has to be criminalized. Sure they don't think they are protecting a woman by criminalizing the hand that feeds her. I'm not applying that to all women. I'm just saying some women like having sex for money. I know it's hard to accept, but some women truly enjoy sex and the money that comes from being desired for sex.
If you go along with laws that target male clients of prostitutes, I ask you, are you willing to pay every hooker $200 dollars a night? She has mouths to feed, even if it's her own. Why do you want to block her from a source of income? No one is saying that she can't do anything else or she is less intelligent than a man. Many women have used the sex industry to pay their way through college. Matter of facet, it takes an intelligent women to stay on top of her game in the sex business. If you take away the Johns, what are your plans to help every woman in need who lack resources? Surely your plan of women empowerment through male impediment doesn't only cater to women who would sell their bodies at night.
To end demand of sex workers, you have to end the demand of human reproduction. And that is a demand that always comes with the supply.
On top of the law unfairly targeting men, just like all those other laws in place prohibiting prostitution, it doesnot stop it. Anytime something that is of harm to no one becomes prohibited, criminal activity is encouraged to surround it. In a world where most people want to move towards equality, it is double standard and a step backwards to allow for the sell of something, but criminalize the buyer.
I wounder what law makers were thinking when they were putting together the end demand law. Surely they didn't think they were making strides in woman's rights. I thought women fought for the right to their bodies. But if they are doing something with their bodies that some people don't like, something about it has to be criminalized. Sure they don't think they are protecting a woman by criminalizing the hand that feeds her. I'm not applying that to all women. I'm just saying some women like having sex for money. I know it's hard to accept, but some women truly enjoy sex and the money that comes from being desired for sex.
If you go along with laws that target male clients of prostitutes, I ask you, are you willing to pay every hooker $200 dollars a night? She has mouths to feed, even if it's her own. Why do you want to block her from a source of income? No one is saying that she can't do anything else or she is less intelligent than a man. Many women have used the sex industry to pay their way through college. Matter of facet, it takes an intelligent women to stay on top of her game in the sex business. If you take away the Johns, what are your plans to help every woman in need who lack resources? Surely your plan of women empowerment through male impediment doesn't only cater to women who would sell their bodies at night.
To end demand of sex workers, you have to end the demand of human reproduction. And that is a demand that always comes with the supply.
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Sunday, April 29, 2012
Are you struggling to have success with women?
http://youtu.be/WOvYaiNaLj0
Take a look at the women in the photos and imagine yourself being with them. Ok come back. Ask yourself, what are you willing to do to sleep with the kind of women you saw in the video? If you would not sleep with a prostitute, I understand. Being with a prostitute is not for every guy. But if you're struggling to get sex and fulfillment from regular women, why would you not give it a chance? I know! There is a lot of stigma surrounding prostitution. A lot of it has been ingrained into you head before you were ever able to think critical. What if there was a book that told you how to go about dealing with prostitutes step by step. In addition to telling men how to go about prostitution, what if that same book helped build your game and confidence with regular women. Why limit yourself to one market of women if you're not having the best of luck with that market. Your problems could range from getting shot down a lot, to wounding up in bad relationships. And wouldn't you like some sound relationship advice for when you do meet that special someone? You're problem is you, along with every other man, has limited your options to what society has deemed is best for you. The question is, has society made you happy far as your luck with women? Didn't think so. Your reading this because you want to make a change. You want to change your lousy results with women. You want to get away from the rejection and bad relationships. You want something better for yourself, because you know you deserve better. The problem is, you're holding on to what society says is best for you. Do you want to hold on to negative results that effects your love life and limits your potential of attaining happiness. Again look at the women in the video and ask yourself, what do you have to lose by trying something new?
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Take a look at the women in the photos and imagine yourself being with them. Ok come back. Ask yourself, what are you willing to do to sleep with the kind of women you saw in the video? If you would not sleep with a prostitute, I understand. Being with a prostitute is not for every guy. But if you're struggling to get sex and fulfillment from regular women, why would you not give it a chance? I know! There is a lot of stigma surrounding prostitution. A lot of it has been ingrained into you head before you were ever able to think critical. What if there was a book that told you how to go about dealing with prostitutes step by step. In addition to telling men how to go about prostitution, what if that same book helped build your game and confidence with regular women. Why limit yourself to one market of women if you're not having the best of luck with that market. Your problems could range from getting shot down a lot, to wounding up in bad relationships. And wouldn't you like some sound relationship advice for when you do meet that special someone? You're problem is you, along with every other man, has limited your options to what society has deemed is best for you. The question is, has society made you happy far as your luck with women? Didn't think so. Your reading this because you want to make a change. You want to change your lousy results with women. You want to get away from the rejection and bad relationships. You want something better for yourself, because you know you deserve better. The problem is, you're holding on to what society says is best for you. Do you want to hold on to negative results that effects your love life and limits your potential of attaining happiness. Again look at the women in the video and ask yourself, what do you have to lose by trying something new?
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Sunday, April 22, 2012
How the secret service could have kept the sex service a secret.
http://youtu.be/G3cf-DyReBY
This is my response to the prostitution scandal involving the secret service that took place in Colombia. Before I go any further I want everyone to know that prostitution is legal in Colombia. And it's a great destination for vacation. However, secret service and military personal are under a moral code of ethics declaring that they will avoid engaging in sexual acts with a prostitute. But rules like this are meant to be broken. The secret service could have easily gone about things discreetly, but they didn't learn from a pro.
First off, a hotel is grounds for scandals to take place. They made the mistake by using a hotel for their activities with the prostitutes. They should have used an apartment they could have found on craigslist and negotiated things prior to their arrival to pay in cash, and to keep their names off of everything, on top of being allowed to bring a woman over without being sweated or charged extra. This not only applies to the secret service. It also applies to any guy that is looking to use the services of prostitutes anywhere. A hotel wants your information and for you to register the women you bring over. That goes against the rule in the world of prostitution of remaining anonymous. If you find a hotel that doesn't want your information, and will not be in your business and charge you extra, by all means use it. But all to often hotels want a persons information, which can create problems when dealing with prostitutes.
Next, too many guys on the same job were around too many guys on the same job. Although it may seem fun and the cool thing to do, you never want to put your business out there among people who are in your professional circle. And with that type of job, if anything goes wrong they will look for someone to blame. Dealing with prostitutes is better done on your own. If you're on vacation with a buddy, that's a different thing. But guys who work together should never fraternize over something like prostitutes. Having too many people over and partying while on security detail, things could get crazy and go bad quick.
And finally, the negotiations were not done properly (if at all) before they dealt with the prostitutes. Aside from applying their skill to read what type of person they were dealing with, price and time should have been negotiated before any prostitutes were brought to their rooms. It is best to make arrangements with a prostitute online before you arrive, or you can meet on the streets. Certain jobs such as security detail, you want to keep your business out of the public eye as much as possible. But meeting someone on the street is ok, long as they don't know what you're doing. They should get the impression that you are on vacation and not on business. Another agreement that should be made during negotiations, is that you will make the payment after you have finished. This will help ensure that you get proper service and that she doesn't run off with the money without servicing you. And if she wants the money first, their are plenty more that will accept your offer to pay them after you have finished. Plus, paying after you finish lessens the chances of getting scammed, which is really what happened, and I'm gonna touch on that towards the end. In my experience, a prostitute who will scam you will most likely be hellbent on receiving payment upfront. And although they might service you, they will demand extra after the service is done. A tip should be give at your discretion. What can she do if you don't give her a tip, spit on her pussy the next time you visit her, lol. Whatever you do, never tell a prostitute your occupation. If they know what you do for a living they can rack up the price. They don't even have a reason to know your name. I feel what happened was the prostitutes wanted more money out of those guys because they knew they were in a high level profession. I feel the secret service compensated them for what they agreed to. Just ask yourself why wouldn't they. They make good money, plus they would not want trouble from the prostitutes as a result of non-payment. They had no reason not to pay. Plus, they've done it many times before, so why did it have to happen now. What basically happened was the prostitutes became opportunists. They were at a high end hotel and the secret service did not look like commoners. So the prostitutes seeing all this became greedy and tried to scam more money out of them. And when the secret service refused to be bribed for more cash, it went down hill from there.
To learn more on how to deal with prostitutes throughout the world, on top of many other things that surround this subject matter pick up my book at the website below.
This is my response to the prostitution scandal involving the secret service that took place in Colombia. Before I go any further I want everyone to know that prostitution is legal in Colombia. And it's a great destination for vacation. However, secret service and military personal are under a moral code of ethics declaring that they will avoid engaging in sexual acts with a prostitute. But rules like this are meant to be broken. The secret service could have easily gone about things discreetly, but they didn't learn from a pro.
First off, a hotel is grounds for scandals to take place. They made the mistake by using a hotel for their activities with the prostitutes. They should have used an apartment they could have found on craigslist and negotiated things prior to their arrival to pay in cash, and to keep their names off of everything, on top of being allowed to bring a woman over without being sweated or charged extra. This not only applies to the secret service. It also applies to any guy that is looking to use the services of prostitutes anywhere. A hotel wants your information and for you to register the women you bring over. That goes against the rule in the world of prostitution of remaining anonymous. If you find a hotel that doesn't want your information, and will not be in your business and charge you extra, by all means use it. But all to often hotels want a persons information, which can create problems when dealing with prostitutes.
Next, too many guys on the same job were around too many guys on the same job. Although it may seem fun and the cool thing to do, you never want to put your business out there among people who are in your professional circle. And with that type of job, if anything goes wrong they will look for someone to blame. Dealing with prostitutes is better done on your own. If you're on vacation with a buddy, that's a different thing. But guys who work together should never fraternize over something like prostitutes. Having too many people over and partying while on security detail, things could get crazy and go bad quick.
And finally, the negotiations were not done properly (if at all) before they dealt with the prostitutes. Aside from applying their skill to read what type of person they were dealing with, price and time should have been negotiated before any prostitutes were brought to their rooms. It is best to make arrangements with a prostitute online before you arrive, or you can meet on the streets. Certain jobs such as security detail, you want to keep your business out of the public eye as much as possible. But meeting someone on the street is ok, long as they don't know what you're doing. They should get the impression that you are on vacation and not on business. Another agreement that should be made during negotiations, is that you will make the payment after you have finished. This will help ensure that you get proper service and that she doesn't run off with the money without servicing you. And if she wants the money first, their are plenty more that will accept your offer to pay them after you have finished. Plus, paying after you finish lessens the chances of getting scammed, which is really what happened, and I'm gonna touch on that towards the end. In my experience, a prostitute who will scam you will most likely be hellbent on receiving payment upfront. And although they might service you, they will demand extra after the service is done. A tip should be give at your discretion. What can she do if you don't give her a tip, spit on her pussy the next time you visit her, lol. Whatever you do, never tell a prostitute your occupation. If they know what you do for a living they can rack up the price. They don't even have a reason to know your name. I feel what happened was the prostitutes wanted more money out of those guys because they knew they were in a high level profession. I feel the secret service compensated them for what they agreed to. Just ask yourself why wouldn't they. They make good money, plus they would not want trouble from the prostitutes as a result of non-payment. They had no reason not to pay. Plus, they've done it many times before, so why did it have to happen now. What basically happened was the prostitutes became opportunists. They were at a high end hotel and the secret service did not look like commoners. So the prostitutes seeing all this became greedy and tried to scam more money out of them. And when the secret service refused to be bribed for more cash, it went down hill from there.
To learn more on how to deal with prostitutes throughout the world, on top of many other things that surround this subject matter pick up my book at the website below.
Friday, April 13, 2012
Travel and love
I travel the world looking for love, whose coming with me? I believe love is not meant to last between two people forever. If we die so to does an emotion, and it can die a lot faster. That is why problems happen with couples. We are taught to look at love as something that is supposed to last forever between two people. If the conscious of humanity is bigger than two people how can we confine love to two people? Love is an energy that transcends from person to person. The energy might last longer between some people than others. But it will eventually run its course. Holding on to something that is no longer there will eventually cause problems. The lifestyle I live, which I coined as Johnning, keeps the energy flowing. You wake up feeling recharged everyday. You can get it the regular way which is for free. Or you can also pay for it. However you get it is how you get it. I teach men how to expand their options for the energy to flow. You never want to confine the means in which the energy could flow. Love is a positive energy, and instead of confining it you have to flow with it. You have to go where it takes you. I'm able to love all kinds of women even a hooker. Truth be told, I often felt more free with a prostitute than I did with a regular woman. And I'm open to debating this. How am I able to love a prostitute and feel more free with her, than I did most regular women?
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Why is travel so important?
In order to stimulate personal growth, one must step outside of their comfort zone. They must go beyond what it is they know. Travel and interacting with other cultures is essential for personal growth. During my travels, I don't just look for "booty", lol. I also look forward to trying different food, meeting new people, and seeing things I've never seen before. We live in an age where we are able to touch down in places that took people hundreds or even thousands of years to migrate to. We are able to network with people on a global scale. There is no excuse to be stuck anywhere or with anyone. Even if you don't have the means to travel by plane yet, you can still interact with the global society of humanity. Travel gives me a more relaxed feeling and a sense of true freedom. When my confidence is boosted from travel, it makes it easier for me to approach women. I get a different feeling whenever I'm in another country, and when I'm around different people. Just like we shower in order to clean our bodies, we also need to clean our soul. And travel is like the water for our soul. Travel is important simply because it helps us to connect with each other. And when two objects connect, they become one.
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Best places in the world for sex tourism.
Let's discuss the best places in the world for sex tourism. In my book I say there is no particular order for which destination is the best. Every man has his preference and taste in women. Every man also has a preference for the type of atmosphere he likes to be in. Weather it's a big city or tropical island. So I feel it's imperative to state if your a guy such as myself whose open to anywhere and have a preference for all beautiful women of the world, or do you have a specific location and type of woman that you like. Remember there is no place that's better or worse than the other. Also give specific locations and tips for fellow Johns in the areas you talk about.
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